Okay, I’ve seen a lot of both recently. So here goes.
1. Don’t go out of the house unkempt, unless you really don’t mind it. If you go to the store, you will meet someone who knows you and they will tell three friends you looked like walking poopie. If you look great, no one you know will see you and you can shop in peace.
2. Don’t wear leggings and a midriff baring top, no matter how thin, etc.
3. Don’t wear tall spiked heels with a mini skirt that almost shows your hind end, unless that’s the signal you want to give off. Sometimes being a hootchy is a good thing.
4. Don’t expect a man to think you are a lady if you sleep with them on the first date. I think it’s okay to sleep with men on the first date. That’s your decision. I just think if you want a second date, that isn’t a booty call, men will get the milk and go onto a different cow.
5. Live your life by whatever code you choose. Religion/life crede? Great! If you are Christian, then follow the Bible and stop casting them there stones. I see a lot of people not causing harm to others out of fear of hell, rather than because they love their neighbor, as themselves. Oops, maybe they don’t like themselves. That’s the key to most bullies, self hate. Ignore them, report them, turn it around. A Cyber-Bully and a real lie bully, have everything in common.
6. Love yourself. If you have a hard time loving yourself, pick out one thing and tell someone you are good at it. Mail me. I’d love to hear about something you are wonderful at and we can either keep it to ourselves, or share it with the universe by allowing you to either guest blog, or guest video on my YouTube channel.
